Sea and Human

Yesterday, I had a chance to sit with one of my dear friend along the beach... it was evening and the sun had almost set... While Gazing at the sea, I and my friend were talking about how sea behaves.. There were many thoughts that were going through my mind, though i didnt tell everything to her..

I compare the sea with what an ideal human should be. Sea is mostly very calm, with little waves striking the surface periodically. It has gotta lotta of stuff inside it.... but almost nothing is visible from outside.. At the same time, all the living creatures in the sea get their share of Sun Light.. and those who are un-lucky to get one(because they are living at deep bottom of the sea).. they still survive because sea gives them an alternate source of survival. We are surviving on this planet, because we have sea as the abundant source of water.... Without Sea can you imagine life on Earth ?

Also, had the sea not been there, how wud we ever to get to see beautiful creatures like Dolphins.. Star Fishes.. and many others like Sharks and Whales(though a lot bad things about sharks has been told in the hollywood flick Shark.. but in reality, more than 95% of the sharks are harmless to anyone. Read more about Sharks Here..). I personally love Whales..(they are cool.. big in size . but cause no harm to any one unless provoked..)

An ideal human being should also be like a sea.. calm from outside, lotzz of stuff inside.. helps breed many living and non-living things inside it...and at the same, no show of pride and power...(Unless mother nature demands it... u see it in form of sea storms and Tsunami's)

While looking at sea, My friend told an interesting point. She said - "The waves which comes and hits you.. goes back..you may try holding it to your self... but you will not be able to.. in the same way.. Life offers you good things (including pretty women).. for some time, and after that it will pull it back..You can try holding it for sometime, but it will slip away". Interesting comment with a pinch of bitter truth.

The Changing Face of Love

Its been almost a month, that I didnt post a blog. I was wondering on what could be an interesting topic for blogging. After some struggle I got a new topic. Again inspired by my friends and the (love) events that happen in their life, I am writing another blog.

One of my friend, fell in love recently. She was attracted to a guy, who was her office colleague. But as her emotions started taking shape, she found that the guy was already in love with some other girl. Poor, my friend.. she cried & cried. But soon, as the time passed, the emotions became weaker. Eventually I believe it will (should) fade away!!

Another friend is in love with a scorpion woman. If you know something about astrology, (dont believe it.. jst read it for fun) it is said that a scorpion is the most mysterious person. So,
Scorpion women = Scorpion + Women
=> Scorpion women = Mysterious + Women
But, women are also mysterious, so the equation becomes
Scorpion women = Mysterious + Mysterious
=>Scorpion women = 2 x Mysterious

So, mathematically a scorpion women is 2 times mysterious and hence more dangerous!!

I personally like to stay away from scorpion women(you can say past experience.. blah blah ..). I advised my friend the same. But he was too enthusiastic about this girl.

The relationship started some 3 - 4 months back. There was a 100% chance that the vocal love relationship converts into a bedroom story. Somehow, by God's grace.. the girl was saved !! It was going fine, till the time, until they became serious about the relationship. The reason - Girl would be getting married anytime now, as her parents were seeking alliances. So started the confusion - should they go and tell their parents about their relationship or accept what is there in their fate!! And amazingly/miserably the confusion continues even now..

There is another interesting case - one of my friend fell in love with a girl on a office communicator. Sitting in US, he be-friended and proposed a girl in Bangalore. To all the amazement, the girl agreed. Wow! Now that is 21st century techno - love. The most amazing part is that they have never met, and they have agreed for marriage. Their parents too have approved of this love affair and things have been set rolling for the next stage.

Every thing starts fine, but the one that ends good is the one that is good. Many relationships break because of incompatibility issues. So, can we assume these incompatibility issues were not there in the beginning itself, or we were most happy to compromise on them, because we wanted some thing desperately??? If yes, then is it actually love ? If not, then how far is it good to compromise on our ideals for this? Many questions ponder my mind, wondering about what could be the possible fallout if I enter into a relationship. Will it last forever ? The question remains.